{"id":1546,"date":"2026-01-12T07:03:56","date_gmt":"2026-01-14T04:35:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/books.kalantri.co.in\/?page_id=1546"},"modified":"2026-03-03T11:02:01","modified_gmt":"2026-03-03T16:32:01","slug":"palliative-care","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/sp.kalantri.co.in\/gmc73\/med-superintendent\/palliative-care\/","title":{"rendered":"The Art of the Gentle Goodbye"},"content":{"rendered":"

The Cruel Paradox<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n

In 2017, an oncologist named Dr. Sankha Mitra visited Sevagram and spoke a sentence that cut through our institutional pride like a scalpel. “In India,” he said, “the poor die in agony and neglect; the middle-class die in agony and ignorance; and the rich die in agony on a ventilator. No one gets a dignified, pain-free death.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It was a sobering realization. We had spent years injecting high-end technology into our wards\u2014Cath Labs, dialysis units, and ventilators\u2014yet we were neglecting the most basic human need: the right to a peaceful end. In a country that is ranked among the worst places in the world to die, less than one percent of those in need have access to palliative care. We had become experts at prolonging life, but we were still novices at managing the pain of the evening of one’s life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Ten Days of Tenderness<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n

To address this “Nephrology of the Soul,” we invited Dr. M.R. Rajagopal, the chairperson of Pallium India, to Sevagram in March 2019. Known as the father of palliative care in India, he and his team spent ten days teaching our doctors and nurses that medicine is about more than just a cure.<\/p>\n\n\n

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Thiruvananthapuram, 2018 \u2014 a village home visit with Dr. M.R. Rajagopal. Palliative care learned not in a classroom but at a bedside.<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n

They didn’t teach us about new machines. Instead, they taught us how to talk. We learned the delicate art of breaking bad news\u2014how to sit in the silence of a patient’s grief without rushing to fill it with medical jargon. We learned the proper use of morphine to melt away the physical agony of cancer, and we learned that compassionate care extends far beyond the hospital bed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dr. Rajagopal took us out of the sterile corridors and into the homes of our patients. There, among the cramped rooms and the socio-economic struggles of rural life, we saw that a disease doesn’t just belong to a patient; it belongs to the entire family.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Easing the Dis-eased<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n

“Medical students must know how to ease the dis-eased,” Dr. Rajagopal told us, his voice carrying the weight of three decades of experience. He spoke of the “total suffering” that families face\u2014the poor who are sent home because “nothing more can be done,” the middle class who bankrupt themselves for futile treatments, and the rich who are imprisoned in the cold, mechanical embrace of an ICU.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

He challenged our young students: “When we deny access to pain relief and make people endure severe suffering, we are essentially inflicting cruel, inhuman punishment on our patients.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I watched as the message hit home. During one session, a medical student stood up, tears welling in her eyes. “This must stop,” she said quietly. “We should blend cure with comfort. We must ensure we offer care that enables a person to live well, and when the time comes, to die with as much dignity as possible.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

***<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n

The Future of Kindness<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n

For a generation of doctors enamored with the power of science and the dazzle of technology, this was a vital lesson. We realized that as we reached for the “summits” of cardiac surgery and advanced interventions, we had to be equally committed to the “valley” of the end-of-life journey.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Technology is the muscle of medical science, but kindness is its heartbeat. As I sat in the auditorium, watching our students listen to Dr. Rajagopal, I felt a sense of relief. We were finally learning that being a good doctor isn’t just about knowing when to start a ventilator; it’s about knowing how to hold a hand when the machines are finally turned off.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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